What is your personality like?

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When you say that someone has a "good personality" that implies they are likable, interesting and pleasant to be with. 
I have often lived my life with a high belief that I ought to try and make others comfortable but quite often it is mistaken for trying to please people. This is where we lose track of the good motive and people take for granted the niceness presented before them.
In the industry that I currently work in, it is very important to establish relationships with people. Once you establish the relationship, retention of the clients is a no brainer. The one thing I am sure of about social connection is that there is value addition that will be a constant at all times even when events go sour. Once you have something of value benefit from the other party, you will always have a reason small or big to try and make things right. 
Build up on your character on a daily. Work out something that nurtures your relationship abilities. Aim at listening to people and know when best to offer your advice. Sometimes it feels like it is a battle worth fighting back but often, you may gain more when you take the back seat and events replay on their own. Struggling with choice of words could be a hiccup to conversations but once you equip yourself daily with the communication etiquette, you will go far.
Taking you back to the start of our thoughts today, everyone wants to be attractive to others. Having a good personality is probably even more vital than good looks. In fact, largely speaking, your success and happiness will be a result of how well you interact with others. Ultimately, it is your personality that determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.
While we can only enhance our looks to a certain extent, we have the ability to improve the personality as much as we want. We can develop or integrate any trait we deem fitting and agreeable. 
What are your strengths? What are your weaknesses? What attracts you most to your circles?Once you begin to answer some of these questions, you then know how to integrate your personality into your day to day life and nurture it a day at a time.




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  1. Boma Moses16 November 2016 at 02:35

    Nice to have you writing again! its been long.
    About this issue, i have come to the realization that we all have boundaries with in which we exist! Depending on our drive, some will attempt to expand their spheres by encroaching on that of others (competitive). Others will seek to coexist and interrelate because they know the universe is enough for all our egos to prosper. But yes, figuring out who you are should enable you get closer to those people that complement you. Those that have qualities you desire to learn or posses. Strengths, weakness, it does not really mater. What maters is do you view them as threats or opportunities! i train my self to convert the first three into opportunities; for me, the other parties and for the general environment, be it physical, social or psychological! My problems are nothing without Me! Why let them drive me?

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    1. Boma Moses16 November 2016 at 02:39

      ...one more view. Never try to impress! be true first to yourself! otherwise you are but a lie to those around you! be yourself, birds of the same feather........well they will always find you!

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