Daily Thoughts

How often do you get out there and just be the person that people don’t often see? Do you ever let anyone meet that person you always rehearse when you are on your own? I know it might not be easy for some people but let me confess that I have recently realized the joy in just being you. The moment when you play like never before, joke and laugh away, dance and don’t care who is watching. It is totally refreshing to be that person. Very often this is evident in children. So because you are growing up, you tend to drop certain childhood tendencies for reasons best known to you. You discover that you are only avoiding wrong judgment. Our true self is who we really are at the point that we let go of all the stories, labels, and judgments that we have placed upon ourselves. It is who we naturally are without the masks that people have often seen. Today I am going to remind you that your inner joy comes from being you. It is nurtured when you let your spirit free. It is...

When you s ay that someone has a "good personality" that implies they are likable, interesting and pleasant to be with.  I have often lived my life with a high belief that I ought to try and make others comfortable but quite often it is mistaken for trying to please people. This is where we lose track of the good motive and people take for granted the niceness presented before them. In the industry that I currently work in, it is very important to establish relationships with people. Once you establish the relationship, retention of the clients is a no brainer. The one thing I am sure of about social connection is that there is value addition that will be a constant at all times even when events go sour. Once you have something of value benefit from the other party, you will always have a reason small or big to try and make things right.  Build up on your character on a daily. Work out something that nurtures your relationship abilities. Aim at listening to peopl...

They say, "out of sight is out of mind." The more I give this thought, the more I appreciate the value of keeping those close to me at heart. There is an evolution of a standard that we now brand as human where we say do not contact them not until they make an initiative. That could sound like a good approach to silent people but no its not. The truth is it breeds a whole new level of distance in relationships be it family, friends, workmates and the list goes on. Coping with insensitive people or rather the un bothered type can be derailing especially when you live by the peace talk and dialogue approach in life.  Teaching one to always stay in touch with people is a choice. You either try to do it or you do not try at all. Our lives are daily comprised of choices and caring about others is one of the best choices we can ever make. There is so much peace in knowing that you have invested a great deal of your time in people. It could be a text but you can trust it will s...